02 July 2007

Are you being nice or being selfish?

I was having a chat with a good friend about being nice and she said there's always a hidden agenda. And it got me to thinking about whether or not we do things because we're really being nice or because we want something.

Do you do great work because you enjoy it or because you're looking for that big fat raise?

Are you opening a woman's door because you're a gentleman or are you hoping it'll get you laid?

Do you shovel an elderly person's driveway because you're kind or are you about to have a blowout party and want to build up some goodwill?

Do you ask a girl if she wants the shocker because you want to be a caring lover or is it because you're hoping she'll think you're a great guy and will let you in her back door?

So the next time you do something think about what your true motives are. You might be surprised!

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